Saturday, August 23, 2014

Identity Messages Given

Thoughts on Michael Wells’ teachings in Sidetracked In The Wilderness - # 32
         
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We come to the conclusion of this chapter called “The Conviction of Self-Life.”  What an eye opener this chapter is.  Gratefully, Michael has given us an awareness that brings us to knowing we have a problem, and closer to what our problem really is.  Unfortunately, the world has no real answers and help here.  And far too many in Christian circles can’t help either. 

See if you can “identify” with some of the main points from Chapter 5’s closing pages…


IDENTITY MESSAGES GIVEN

excerpt from pages 90-93 of SIW (5th printing, March 1998)
excerpt from pages 86-90 of SIW (14th printing, March 2012)
                   (used with permission from ALMI):


Many children receive from parents the communication that they are not needed or wanted, such as when, for instance, the parents decide to divorce…A message of worth is given to the child as he observes what the parents give their time to…

…there is, unfortunately, around the world great discrimination derived from appearance…

A child can receive identity messages from the parent who does too little or too much…

One discussion that always brings a loud message is when parents talk about the son or daughter who is such a great success in terms of position, achievement, wealth, and so on.  The point of triumph for the rest of the children becomes similar accomplishment.  Anything less is failure, about which they are reminded every time the eminent child is acclaimed.

These are just a few of the messages we receive in our insane conditions…Once the messages are received and believed, the identity of what we are at our worst begins to be molded.  It may include feelings of worthlessness, inferiority, depression, not being wanted, stupidity, failure, ugliness, guilt, and self-hate.  Then every mistake begins to prove to us that not only do we feel this way about ourselves, but it is actually what we are.

The attempts (success suits) to cover identity take on many forms…All are efforts to keep hidden what we fear is true.  In short, we hate ourselves!...  The use of idols is merely an extension of that dark, hated thing called self-life.  All attempts to deny it have failed.  How to be free is the question.



It can be events in our life, words said to us, actions taken that cause us to think something that isn’t truth or reality…all are devastating to far too many.  Isn’t it incredible that something like the things mentioned can have such an impact on our whole being? 

Getting a victory from the “self-life,” the “success suits,” what we are at our worst, the idols, and all the feelings that defeat us IS the ultimate victory for life here on earth.  Is it possible to ever be FREE from all this?

Well, as we close out this chapter, and next time move on to Chapter 6, we find Michael has some rich insights that bring us to the freedom and victory that so many long for.  Hallelujah!



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